You Can't Pimp Like On TV

I've noticed something about the inexperienced man, when it comes to pimping a girl. See, on TV you often see things where a guy talks to a girl, knows her a bit, and then asks her to be his girlfriend. Of course she says yes and they live happily ever after. I'm sorry, it just doesn't work that way unless you got a lot of money, or she is from a much poorer country than you...trust me I seen it happen to a friend. This guy never had a girlfriend before, he was 22 years old, and he went out on a date with a girl from a poor country, she was here in the US illegally. Anyway, on this date, he asked her to marry him and she said yes. Well needless to say she lied to him about a lot, and cheated on him. In return this caused him to burn his bridges with a lot of people. I just want to state, that because a girl is from a poorer country than you isn't a bad thing. It just means something when you ask her to marry you and she says yes on the first date, and she doesn't even know you well.

Anyway, let me get back to the point. The point is if you want to get a girl, you have to talk. Let's say you meet a girl you find interesting, and you guys chat for a while and the conversation goes pretty decent. Ask for the phone number or email address. It's really easy to get a girls email address because most people feel email addresses are less personal than a phone number. See, you can email her at 4 AM and and that's cool. Yet, if you call at 4:00 AM she's not going to be so happy.

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Anyway, go for the phone number and email. It doesn't matter which one you get. Now the thing is if the conversation didn't go so great, don't even try. Just let it go. What will happen is she will either give you a fake number, or she will ask for yours instead and you will never hear from her. I've only seen twice where a girl called when she didn't give a number.

So here is how it goes. If you aren't in highschool. You can't just talk to her once, not talk to her again for a while, and expect to get somewhere the next time you see her. You have to keep talking, find common interests and all that unless you are experienced. If there are no common interests, then learn about something she is interested in, this way you have something to talk about. She will do the same for you, trust me.

So talk, ask the girl out on a date. Don't expect anything on the date. Just go out to have fun. That's all the date is for anyone. If you try to get somewhere then you are either going to fail miserably or it will take you longer to get where you want to go. Just go have fun. Get to know each other. If she is eager for another date then you know all is good. Keep it up, because you have her interested. Remember half the battle to getting a girl is talking to her first. The next 1/4 is to just be yourself. Being yourself is the total key, which means you have to have confidence. So stop being a wimp and just be happy with who you are.

I've seen an ugly, poor, fat guy get a really beautiful girlfriend before. She really loved him and married him from what I know. There was nothing wrong with her at all. She was also very nice and intelligent. The thing was he had a lot of confidence, made her laugh, and he was understanding with her. So she loved him. So this is inspiration for all of you who feel you aren't good enough to get a girl. It's just confidence that you need, so stop being such a punk about it. Being a pimp means being the master of your world and your surroundings. You can't be the master of your world and surroundings if you have no confidence.

So don't be an idiot. You have to pay attention to her. Give her compliments about something, and tell her why you are complimenting her. You can compliment a girls hair, but why are you doing it? I have found that when you compliment a girl on her hair and tell her why you like her hair she enjoys it that much more. It's all about being observant to what is going on. If she dresses a little more nice for a date compared to before, you better notice it or else she is going to feel bad that you didn't notice. She did it for you to enjoy her, not out of her own vanity.

If you want to be a pimp, you have to do your best to notice. With my current girlfriend who I will call Exotica. I totally kept in mind any changes. I remember I would see her at the University while I was working and we would talk. Well one day she came in dressed a bit nicer than usual. She did it for me, and I complimented her on it. I knew Exotica came in like that for me, because I asked her if she had a presentation for a class and she said no. By this point me and her had already been on one date, and had started talking on the phone regularly through the weeks.

So anyway you have to pay attention, you have to be thoughtful, you have to say things that are truly from your heart. So if you think she is very funny, tell her often especially after she had made you laugh. Compliments are nice. It feels good to get them unless you are one of those weird people out there who don't like them.

Now do you guys see why you can't pimp like they do in the movies? Can you sleep with a girl in one night like in the movies? Oh of course you can and it's not that hard depending on the girl, the situation, and any other un-foreseen variables. Pimping is still about being confident though. The biggest key to anything in life is confidence. If you aren't confident enough to do something, you are going to fail in the end. If you are confident then you will succeed in the end.

Another thing to do when talking with a girl is to just not care if you get anywhere with her or not. This will make you more relaxed. Pimping has a lot of rules, but it's not so bad. Before I was with Exotica I was pimping a lot of girls actually. I had them all. They were always looking for me at work. I talked to every attractive girl there was. Sometimes I was successful sometimes not. You will never ever run a 100% game with your pimping. The reason why is everyone has different tastes. Even though the majority of people on earth will think you are attractive, there will be some who won't feel that you are attractive at all.

Remember my lesson everyone. Confidence, contact, and observance. It takes all 3 to be practiced to get somewhere. So if you aren't doing all 3, you aren't going to get too far. Also, don't be stupid. If you see that when you are trying to talk to her after the initial conversation has happened, and she doesn't really say much. Then understand she isn't so interested, and you move on. Remember after getting advice you wont always get results right away. It takes practice and confidence. Start off with a warm smile. You'd be surprised as to how well those work.

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